Lovely Valentine's Day~
- Gandalf Fett
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Gandalf Fett wrote:Dan - Vintage = value = precious = desirable = distinguished = marketable = the choice is yours!!!! You just need to get out more then! NO MORE exhibitions, cons and such for you!!! Only clubs and clubs and clubs!!!
OK, shows you what I know about places to meet people....
Clubs ? Oh , I've tried them many times, Gandalf, but they don't work. The ladies didn't appreciate my hitting them on their heads with them ! Grunt grunt
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Hey does S'pore girls still put the 5 Cs(or is it 6 Cs?) as a priority for selecting a potential mate nowadays?danchia wrote:Clubs ? Oh , I've tried them many times, Gandalf, but they don't work. The ladies didn't appreciate my hitting them on their heads with them ! Grunt gruntGandalf Fett wrote:Dan - Vintage = value = precious = desirable = distinguished = marketable = the choice is yours!!!! You just need to get out more then! NO MORE exhibitions, cons and such for you!!! Only clubs and clubs and clubs!!!
OK, shows you what I know about places to meet people....
We only need a max of 3 Cs, so a bit easier for us...ha ha ha
According to my friends, age 17-18, they claimed that they want these type of guys:Plo Strax-Avix wrote:Hey does S'pore girls still put the 5 Cs(or is it 6 Cs?) as a priority for selecting a potential mate nowadays?
We only need a max of 3 Cs, so a bit easier for us...ha ha ha
- Must be handsome/cute
- Tall
- Must take care of them all the time
- $$$ factor is duh...
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Young girls of course want all that in a guy lah, coz they 'just wanna have fun'...Commander Faie wrote:According to my friends, age 17-18, they claimed that they want these type of guys:
- Must be handsome/cute
- Tall
- Must take care of them all the time
- $$$ factor is duh...
Whatabout girls of the marrying age looking for a husband?
I had refrained from commenting as I see differences in my wife and my daughter, that is, comparing past and present, comparing as objectively as possible.
Although I cannot help but to agree with the comments made here but I like to point out that there are exceptions.
Also, I need to remind all that men are not much different either.
Young boys love the idea of having a girl friend, better still if cute and pretty, something to brag about, particularly if you are in NS. Those who are seriously looking for a wife would want to look for woman with certain attributes they like, not excluding look beautiful, demure, cute, curves in the right places, etc., however, if they are socialising, the woman they meet are likely to be the outgoing ones, most likely will say what they have in their mind.
If man can accept such woman with an open mind, I guess he will be ok.
Woman looking for husband will most likely look for man who can support them and give them certain comforts but not every woman does that as some can already support themselves and their husbands if necessary. If you wish to determine what kind of attributes, in a strange way, look to the animal kingdom, they provide clues about human behaviour.
Although I cannot help but to agree with the comments made here but I like to point out that there are exceptions.
Also, I need to remind all that men are not much different either.
Young boys love the idea of having a girl friend, better still if cute and pretty, something to brag about, particularly if you are in NS. Those who are seriously looking for a wife would want to look for woman with certain attributes they like, not excluding look beautiful, demure, cute, curves in the right places, etc., however, if they are socialising, the woman they meet are likely to be the outgoing ones, most likely will say what they have in their mind.
If man can accept such woman with an open mind, I guess he will be ok.
Woman looking for husband will most likely look for man who can support them and give them certain comforts but not every woman does that as some can already support themselves and their husbands if necessary. If you wish to determine what kind of attributes, in a strange way, look to the animal kingdom, they provide clues about human behaviour.
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I agree to a full extent! That's why it's good reminder to my friends don't be despo and start to figure out WHY u want to have gf at such young age!!! (Refering to teens, and especially kids!!!)lhs1701 wrote:Young boys love the idea of having a girl friend, better still if cute and pretty, something to brag about, particularly if you are in NS. Those who are seriously looking for a wife would want to look for woman with certain attributes they like, not excluding look beautiful, demure, cute, curves in the right places, etc., however, if they are socialising, the woman they meet are likely to be the outgoing ones, most likely will say what they have in their mind.
If man can accept such woman with an open mind, I guess he will be ok.
Woman looking for husband will most likely look for man who can support them and give them certain comforts but not every woman does that as some can already support themselves and their husbands if necessary. If you wish to determine what kind of attributes, in a strange way, look to the animal kingdom, they provide clues about human behaviour.
- Gandalf Fett
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Agreed with lhs above.
The way I see it, different stages of life calls for different expectations and needs and yet, with my encounters, discussions and observations with my social circle, it does appear that there is a great divergence between what both sexes want and are able to give (more so in the young).
Materiality figures in greatly but coupled with the desire to be independent as well. Two extreme poles being forced together.
Western media and idealistic visions of what romance and love is supposed to be is driving a bigger wedge between reality and expectation.
That is not to say that the above is in fact the true reflection of the reality here but it certainly FEELS like it is becoming the norm.
More often than not, this is why there is this HUGE concern over the population statistics here.
The way I see it, different stages of life calls for different expectations and needs and yet, with my encounters, discussions and observations with my social circle, it does appear that there is a great divergence between what both sexes want and are able to give (more so in the young).
Materiality figures in greatly but coupled with the desire to be independent as well. Two extreme poles being forced together.
Western media and idealistic visions of what romance and love is supposed to be is driving a bigger wedge between reality and expectation.
That is not to say that the above is in fact the true reflection of the reality here but it certainly FEELS like it is becoming the norm.
More often than not, this is why there is this HUGE concern over the population statistics here.
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wow so threads around here don't get expired even after almost 3 years?
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No one's posted in this Valentine's Day thread for 3 years ?Shangyou wrote:I thought i would BUMP this thread since Valentine's day is approaching and no one has posted here for almost 3 yrs.
Just want to wish everyone a happy lovely Valentine's Day!!
I guess that proves the widespread rumour that us Star Wars nerds have no love life and that we reproduce by our preferred mode of propagation.... Cloning .
LOL
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